#5: How to Be a Charismatic Master Socialite
| By Jonathan Roseland |
In this episode of the Limitless Mindset podcast, you'll learn how to become a master socialite.
I share 13 lifehacks, tips, and tricks for having an awesome social life; how to befriend and get free drinks from the owners of swanky bars, restaurants, and nightclubs. Along with how biohacking socialites can eat and drink for brainpower. And this episode concludes with the badass story about how I discovered the ultimate cure for a hangover at 12000 feet.
In this episode, we discuss:
- How to get invited and how to get on the guest list.
- How to maximize your social proof at an event while at the same time minimizing your effort or investment of time.
- How to talk about what you do without seeming boring.
- An easy, yet fun dance move to liven up any event.
- How to propose a toast.
- How to have charisma.
Resources and links:
Audio-Visual Association Technique for remembering names
Access: AV Association Technique course
Swing dance move - Demonstrated here
eBay & Amazon stores for suits: Express Fashion & Forever 21
Clever lines for master socialites to use:
- Get on the guestlist: Who do I need to sweet talk to get on the guestlist?
- Learn how people know each other: How do you know this character?
- Tell me something interesting about yourself...
- Here's my card, I give people cards. I'll trade you if you got one!
To be charismatic: Act slightly aloof, yet interested in other people
Talking about what you do:
- What I do is incredibly interesting, I'm very good at and I'm passionate about it. If you get me started I will go all night. Let's talk about... (something humorous, something else)
- I sell dreams...
- Q: So what do you do? A: Well, I compete with you!
- Smoking: Excuse me, I'm trying to start (smoking) - do you mind if I bum a cigarette from you?
Music
'Power' by Capeesh ft. Thelonious & Kid Dynomite
'I Made It' by Kevin Rudolf & Young Money
'Miles Away' Madonna Remix by MJOLLNYR
Join the Limitless Mindset Substack to...
Get frequent free edifying content about Biohacking, Lifehacking, and my holistic pragmatic antifragility philosophy. This informative (and often entertaining!) Substack is about how to take advantage of the latest anti-aging and Biohacking science and where I dispense timely mindset nuggets, lifehacking tips, and my own musings.-
{{#owner}}
-
{{#url}}
{{#avatarSrc}}
{{name}} {{/url}} {{^url}} {{#avatar}} {{& avatar}} {{/avatar}} {{name}} {{/url}} - {{/owner}} {{#created}}
- {{created}} {{/created}}
