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Book Review: "Orgasmic Meditation" a sex hack for the attentive

In my curiosity about all things sex hacking, I came across this video on YouTube, there is a man and a woman, the woman removes her pants, lies down, and the man puts on a rubber glove and proceeds to give her a stroke job. Turns out this is called OM (orgasmic meditation), it's a way to slow down sex and enhance intimacy. The evangelist of OM is this woman Nicole Daedone, I watched a few of her presentations and couldn't quite decide if she was a hedonistic postmodern feminist or a profound thinker, so I read her book Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm. My wife and I tried OMing with mixed results, we discuss the book in this podcast. Listen up and stroke slowly, gents...

With 2019 passed the era of casual sex and dating.

Being a little dramatic aren’t we, Jonathan? The lockdowns eventually ended and life, more or less, went back to normal. - You might be thinking

I’m going to get into the risky business of making predictions, I’m writing this in April 2020 and I think that the dating game is going to be irrevocably changed from here on out. I’m going to break down in this chapter the strategies and lifehacks for dating in the COVID-19 era but first forgive me for a bit of philosophical preamble, making the case why the game has changed...

2023 Update: I'm proud to report that our sex life is better now after a half-decade of marriage. On a fairly regular basis, we will still have spontaneous sex in the middle of the day just because we feel like it! We got married a little fast, we didn't date for years before marrying. And I really don't regret it, I regard it as the best decision I've ever made.

I got married. I'll explain why I took this very calculated risk...

Thanksgiving (a very special holiday for me) of 2018, I got married. My life has been a (mostly intentional) dance with risk, sometimes a reggaeton-powered bump'n grind, sometimes a rhythmic salsa step. In that adventurous spirit, I'm now embracing something new...

Marriage is risky, especially for men. If you don't know why I'll encourage you to just spend a little time perusing the MGTOW corner of YouTube. I certainly don't completely agree with these guys but there's an abundance of evidence why marriage is very risky, indeed the ultimate risk a modern man can take.

Changing your life and mindset requires exploring outside of your comfort zone.

I have a social experiment for you; it's going to make you the center of attention for a night, people will stare at you, and it's going to make people remember you months or years from now. It's going to make you bolder, funnier, probably even more charming, and it's going to cost you approximately $77.

In this episode of the Limitless Mindset podcast, you'll learn how to become a master socialite.

I share 13 lifehacks, tips, and tricks for having an awesome social life; how to befriend and get free drinks from the owners of swanky bars, restaurants, and nightclubs. Along with how biohacking socialites can eat and drink for brainpower. And this episode concludes with the badass story about how I discovered the ultimate cure for a hangover at 12000 feet.

Book Review: Why you shouldn't tell her "You're beautiful!" every day 

We all know that you need to make an ongoing effort to keep the romantic flame alive in a relationship, that's why you tell your woman "You're beautiful!" on the regular, right? "Open Her" by Karen Brody explains why this quotidian romantic overture falls far short of making your lady feel seen, loved, and desired. The author is sort of like a female Roosh V (a comparison I'm sure she would just love). She tasted the rainbow of masculinity and defines seven masculine archetypes in this book - which isn't really "red-pilled", feminist, or anti-feminist. This book and its unique insights on men and women don't really fit into one of our modern culture war camps. My witty and pretty wife and I read this one together, and share takeaways in this podcast...

Module 1 of my new Tantra course for men, Master Mind Master Body Master Her

I’ll start by describing the first thing that men should NOT do if they want an amazing Tantric sex life, using porn.

Young Americans have this silly coming-of-age tradition; at around 18 years old they move out of their parents’ homes and rent cheap and completely bare apartments in bad neighborhoods and then blow their cash on crappy furniture and chintzy interior appointments.
Living around the world, I’ve learned that other cultures do this more sensibly; young people move out in their mid-twenties when they are more advanced in their careers or when they get married, and they often move into furnished apartments with roommates.
The experience of glowing with pride, sitting alone, in your new-to-you (yet funny-smelling) little apartment surrounded by a bunch of newly bought, cheap plastic stuff from Walmart is, as far as I can tell, a uniquely American one.
Many young Americans splurge disproportionate amounts of their income and savings on toys to show off to their friends who come over to their one-bedroom kingdoms; big-screen TVs, ridiculously overpowered stereo systems, guns, and massive collections of bottles of alcohol. And like so many male mammals, a young Jonathan Roseland was intent on converting his bedroom, in his tiny abode, into the ultimate seduction chamber…

During this historically unprecedented global pandemic (that’s putting all our social lives on lockdown) I’m really thankful that I’m married!

My wife makes self-quarantine pretty awesome…
We’ve been doing a lot of fun roleplaying during our “date nights” at home.
We have great intellectual discussions.
We’re constantly laughing and joking about something.
She’s helped me with my food prepping.
We read books together.
We do some biohacking stuff together.

Single people, those living alone or with roommates that they barely know have my sympathy at this time, it must suck! I know that the enforced isolation really would have gotten to me were I still single despite all the social networking tools and VOIP apps along with all the mental health, and “draw happiness from within” lifehacks that I employ. Meeting the love of my life wouldn’t have happened without my Secret Society Infiltration strategy for “networking” which I describe in my book.

Yes, I've had my dick burned by scalding laser pinpricks over and over again for about 20 minutes...

"Why the hell did you subject yourself to that," you ask. Well, it was a surgery I had to undergo because I forgot something very noble and kingly that I once believed, was sold and lived a lie for about a decade - a lie that you might be really bought into, as I was. Is a laser-powered penis-cauterizing session in your future? That's up to you!